Stiles’ thumb touching Lydia’s lips (◡‿◡✿)
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Okay. Honestly, I have learned to live with it. Like I’m not under the even slightest impression that Sterek will ever happen canonly. I’m over that. No problem. Sure, I don’t like Stalia but my reasons for not liking Stalia actually have nothing to do with Sterek.
Do I wish Sterek could be canon? Oh hell, yes. What shipper doesn’t ever wish and dream that just maybe, it could happen? Or even just think it would be cool if it did? I’ll tell you. None.
However, like I said, I know there’s like a maybe 0.00000001 chance that it will ever, and also as I’ve said, I’ve resigned myself to that fact. And so what if I comment on how Derek and Stiles looked at each other in such and such episode. Dylan and Tyler have chemistry, and they are called shipper goggles for a reason.
So, if you are coming into my askbox, and telling me that Sterek will never happen and that I must learn to live with it because I talk about Sterek (among other things), I blog/reblog about Sterek (among other things), I write about Sterek (also among other things but right now all you mostly see is Sterek so I understand that at least), and just anything in general I do about Sterek on my own, personal journal…
No. Just no.
First off, please take a large step back.
I have said this before, and I will say it again.
I can ship what I want to, how I want to, where I want to—especially on my own blog. No one, absolutely no one, is going to tell me what to ship. Not even the directors or actors. That might seem harsh but it’s really not. Because I can like what I like and that’s okay.
And guess what? Others can dislike what I like, and like something else. And you know what? That’s okay too.
I will never, ever tell someone else that what they are shipping is wrong. I might say things negative against a ship, but I’m allowed to. It’s my right, just as it is another person’s to say something positive about it. But I will never, ever, EVER attack someone for liking something.
Sometimes its hard, not gonna lie, to keep from debating with someone about why I don’t see or like this ship, but you know what, I keep from doing that because that ship is something they like. Something that makes them happy. I might talk with someone about how I disagree with so and so ship and why if they are in agreement with me. Nothing wrong with it. But I never tag it with that ship name and instead with the antiship tag for it. And if I do it, which I have before, it isn’t very often.
Anyway, my point is. Please, please, please—-think about how you would feel if someone had sent you that message but instead of Sterek, they put in your OTP. The ship that has gotten you through a shit load of stuff, canon or otherwise. The ship that is pretty much like coming home any time you read a fic or see an amazing headcanon or write something that makes you feel amazing when you see what you’ve accomplished. The ship that gives you inspiration where you couldn’t find any before. And someone sent you a message just like the one you sent me.
How would you feel then?
Because unless you’re completely void of emotion and compassion, you would know how I—and anyone else who receives these messages—feel.
Just think about that for me, would you.
I’m reblogging this for multiple reasons, but the main reason is because this fandom, and I mean all ships, have a problem with jsut letting people ship what they want.
I don’t ship sterek, or stalia, or pydia, or marrish, but the point is I also don’t go on to people’s tumblrs and tell them to get over shipping things. It’s stupid and childish.
How about the teen wolf fandom adopt the policy of ship and let ship. It’s simple, if you don’t like something, that’s fine, but don’t go out of your way to tell off people who do. It’s rude.